Through endurance, and through the encouragement of the Scriptures, we might have hope. May the God of endurance and encouragement grant you to live in such harmony with one another, that together we may with one voice glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. Romans 15:4b-6







Sunday, May 13, 2012

A Mother's week

  Happy Mother's Day!
 We are thankful for our mothers today. We send blessings to them back in Pennsylvania, knowing our siblings are honoring them as we wish we could...in person!  We are thankful we were able to skype with both of them this week. They patiently listened to the children [& to us!] & filled us in on the news from home.


Here is a few pictures from my week. Jon already posted this picture on fb. It was sweet of him. His confidence & encouragement have gotten this mother through some tough days this last year. This is the sort of picture you get when you try to take a nice picture after church but before lunch.
No mother's week would be complete without some food prep. This was my list all lined up on the table. Tomatoes to sauce, mango to chop, beans to soak, yogurt to grow [:)], & some sour lil oranges from the neighbors to figure out what to do with. The children like to eat them like their Ghanaian friends...chew out the juice  & spit out the membranes & seeds. I stepped in just about enough of those little gifts for one week & it's only Monday!


We were very pleased to find this Banana-gram game at a yard sale. Missionaries & other ex patriots living here have yard sales when they leave. And we found some good stuff! Max was happy to trade his phonics workbook for a game today. Here are his words of choice.
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Many days our electricity is off part of the day. Sometimes for 15 minutes, sometimes more than 12 hours. On a good day, I've got a plan for supper, Jon is home & we enjoy supper on the porch before darkness comes. And this time the lights came on while we were eating. I am always thankful for that. Clean up by candlelight is not as relaxing or romantic as you might think. ;)
We like lizards. Like this one. The boys love to catch them, feel quite sad if they pull off the tails [but love to watch the tails "run" around on their own!] & delight in chasing Elle with them. We often must have the wild animal conversation. A lizard would not be happy trapped in a jar.....:)

Especially not this lizard!!! This mampam was behind the house under the cocoa trees.
Here's the story in Max's own words.
Elle & I were playing with the bamboo sticks under the orange tree. She dropped chocolate spread from her bread onto her foot. She went to wash it off & started screaming. I went to see what was wrong & saw the lizard. Mom. We ran, yelling for you,  the other way around the house to get you. [I was sure someone had broken a limb.]
We took this picture from the back porch. It had climbed the wall by that time. I went across the street to see if some men working there wanted to kill it. They  like to eat them or sell them to the natural healers. They came with a fufu pounder to kill it, but it had jumped into the bush behind our house & they didn't brave the swamp to find it.
I wasn't getting any closer & had to take the picture with Elle hanging on me...so here is a better look if you want one.




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a furlough

When your undies look like this...It's time for furlough!!
We'll be returning to Pa on August 14 for 8 weeks.
We are excited!!
Below is our 100 day countdown underway. Max checks off each day as part of his school time. He is pretty sure August is still a looong way off. But, then, to him, so is next weekend. ;)

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Adjusting to a life of change

Acclimate. Adjust. Adapt.

Or we could say we are managin' it, as a Ghanaian would. It's how an American will answer the question of  "How's it going" with "it's going." ;)

Roles and responsibilities are still being defined. Opinions and expectations differ. More than a year of learning and learning to love this culture, our vision for this work has grown. We became aware of an opportunity to minister here in January of 2010 and we arrived in Accra February of 2011. We are often, at times painfully, aware of how the time of this last year has been spent allowing God to speak this calling into our hearts and minds.

Now we believe God is giving us spiritual eyes to see the path ahead. Ah, but isn't it a life lesson to accept the tailoring our ever practical roles and responsibilities do to our vision for God's work? How often we have to untangle ourselves from a side trail and get back on the path. To have only vision leaves us at odds with submitting to our authorities and taking advice. Asking for direction is one thing. Receiving it is quite another.

There is no instant anything here (Except Indo-Mie :)). Not love for this culture, with all its beauties and flaws. Not vision for guiding a group of young churches to develop their own spiritual eyes. Not cheerful submission to our authorities. Not cheerful spirits when the water, the electricity or that item on the store shelf is finished.

I believe God gives all of the above, immediately, in certain circumstances. I've read more than my share of missionary biographies. It has been an awesome source of encouragement.  Vision. Languages. Detailed Instruction. Incredible physical stamina. Given miraculously and purposefully to show God's presence, glory and power.

But when the journey is not instant, the possibility for personal growth toward holiness is laid before us. God's Word makes the journey so clear, doesn't it?
We rejoice in hope of the glory of God.
More than that, we rejoice in suffering,
knowing that suffering produces endurance,
and endurance produces character,
and character produces hope,
and hope does not disappoint us
because God's love has been poured into
our hearts by the Holy Spirit.
[Romans 5:2b-5]
Hey, Jon here, just wanted to give you an update on the pastors. Yesterday was our monthly meeting with our pastors, which is the day they come to the Bible school and report monthly attendance for services, income, expenses, visitors, and any converts for the month. We spend time with each pastor going over what is happening in each of their lives, the church, and ways we can work through any problems. We have 8 pastors, and this process takes about 2 and a half hours. After a time of worship and prayer, I cover any necessary business that needs to be addressed.

After the pastors devoured 3 loaves of banana bread that Sara had made for lunch, we began the DVD series of "The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership" by John Maxwell. The pastors really enjoyed the first hour of teaching, although some of the examples and analogies are often lost in translation. Terms like "You can take that to the bank" and "Put that under your belt" required explanations. John referenced kitchen items like a microwave and a crock pot, and I had to explain some of these things. So, we stopped after each section and I made sure they understood it and had all the blanks in the workbook filled in. They would grab the concept and we would move on. I also handed out some things for them to review on their own until we get together again in two weeks. As I saw some trends in this culture (which aren't very different than in USA), I have been developing handouts that will bring our focus back on Christ and in obedience to His Word. The handout yesterday was title "Where do I find my value?", and in addition to that we are looking at doing some Bible studies as well.

Following that, Ron came in and distributed a letter that would change the mood of the afternoon. The funds for the pastor support program are very low, and we only have the funds to assist them to the end of June. {Much time has been spent in the last year sorting out the details of transitioning the pastors from being monetarily supported by our mission to being cared for by their churches and/or employment. Funding forced the issue before we felt ready, but we trust God. He knows each need. We will continue to support them in specific projects, continuing education & mentoring.}
We needed to give them warning that unless funds came in designated for pastor support, we would need to look at alternatives. Last week we had met with Christian Aid Ministries and discussed their S.A.L.T micro loan program, and are looking at ways of implementing that with our pastors. This will be a very, very tricky process, so we ask for prayers as we look at implementing this or even if this is the right road. We do know that God provides our needs, but it becomes very apparent of our need to trust Him when our best intentions and plans fail. It is one thing to say we trust God, but another to be in the situation where you are not sure where tomorrows food will come from.  Each pastor has the God-given creativity & ability to make the needed changes & continue on in the work. We pray for courage for them!

We sincerely desire your prayers as we continue to work with these pastors, that we would have wisdom from above to know how to proceed. And to give the pastors understanding that they do have the ability to do this, eyes to see the assets and abilities they have, and the courage to trust when the going gets tough. I pray that we will one day look back on this and readily see the hand of God, moving us to something better. May we pray also that as God takes us through difficult things in our lives, we see the end result as a way to grow in grace and knowledge, and in the midst of the struggle to glorify the One who cares so deeply for each one of us.